MEN'S HEALING GROUP
An ancient call to return to a community of men

Imagine a modern version of an age-old ritual where men – sitting around a fire deep into the night – share the events of their day. Immersed in listening. Hearing each other. Holding silence in a sacred space. Bonding. Feeling together. Building a brotherhood.

The question, "Who am I?" leads the seeker’s journey.
For men who are on a journey of self-discovery, other questions may arise.
What does it mean to be a man today?
How can I, as a man, experience fulfilling, loving relationships?  
What is power? What is weakness?
How can I come to terms with loss and dissatisfaction?
 

Since its founding in 2003, men ranging in age from 18 to 80 have come to the group to share their stories, longings, struggles, disappointments, successes, hopes and most importantly, themselves.

When men listen, support and understand each other, they come to discover the richness of their shared lives as men. During group sessions, issues emerge organically from the fabric of each man's life.  Meetings find their focus around a central theme such as relationship, sexuality, father/son dynamics, work and money, aging, and health.

MEN’S HEALING GROUP addresses and explores the challenges men face today.  As facilitator I offer honest, insightful perspectives and support in a safe, trusting environment. My aim is to help men discover their authentic power through the mirror of relationship between group members. I believe that each life is a hero’s journey. On this path, a man’s courage to identify his feelings and express them honestly leads him to the awareness of his true identity as a man, and as a member of the human community.

What Men Are Saying About the Group:

Will:  “Throughout my life, I was never comfortable in the company of men. I always felt a subtle competitive threat in just about any situation where I was with two or more men. The group has provided me with an opportunity to be with other men and just be myself.  Whatever my opinions or reactions are I feel honored and respected, and this has led me to begin to honor and respect myself in a whole new way.”  

David:  “An invaluable opportunity to examine my life, behaviors and unconscious patterns that create my reality within a safe, relaxed and harmonious atmosphere along with fellow seekers supporting each other in growth.  I highly recommend the group for anyone seeking renewal and transformation in their lives.”

Nathaniel:  "This group offers me a safe haven in which to talk about what being a man is all about and after all is said and done, realizing that there are more similarities between us than differences, and finding comfort in that knowledge.”

Bob:  “When I joined the group about a year ago, I didn't know what to expect. What I found was a warm, concerned, and supportive community of men. I am dealing with health and disability issues and the group has been a place where I can discuss these issues openly.  In return, I am given much insight and comfort.  From this nurturing environment, this group has then gone on to help me reconnect with my own creativity.  This is one of the wonderful things about this group, how one discussion leads to another.  And all men in the group benefit from these dialogues.  It is here, when listening to others, that I have a chance to contribute and help.  This is a benefit I was not expecting when I joined the group but is now something I look forward to at each meeting.  The men's group has evolved from being an unknown when I first walked in, to become an essential part of my life. For this I am incredibly grateful.”

Lovett:  “I was prompted to attend the group by a close friend.  At the time, I was dealing with life and family challenges that led to a subsequent depression.  Joining the group changed a lot for me.  Firstly, it gave me a safe space to open up, let light in and begin repairing my self and in-turn, my relationships. I'm a different and better man than when I joined the group one year ago.  Secondly, I've learned how much in common we have as men and as humans and how mutual support not only benefits us individually but our communities as well.  I'm very grateful for the group.”